@belle appreciate where you are coming from here and I love how inclusive this community is. But any time someone tells me I have to do something I start to wonder if I really want to be a member of that club after all. It's the contrarian in me, I'm afraid. I'm also of (I'm guessing) a very small minority who isn't bothered in the slightest if someone gets my pronoun wrong. I guess I'm more interested in a fluid spectrum than the need to rigidly definite oneself. Again, probably in the minority here and in no way wanting to detract with what you're trying to do. Just trying to explain why I won't be changing my bio. Not to provoke. I just wish we didn't have to label everything and everyone, all the time.